A serious instrument for serious dynamics.
RedFlagDaddy replaces guesswork with structure. We help Dominants, submissives and switches assess consent, compatibility, safety and red flags — using a research-grounded question library, transparent scoring, and real-time journey tracking.
Four steps from intent to insight
Create a journey
A guided 3-step wizard: name your assessment, pick the respondent's role (Dominant, submissive or switch), and add optional recipient details.
Invite a respondent
Share a secure, single-use link or invite code. No account required for guests. They answer privately, on their own time.
Adaptive questioning
Questions branch based on role and prior answers, so people only see what's relevant to their dynamic.
Structured results
We weight, score and summarise across five dimensions. You get a clear read on safety, alignment and green/red flags — not vibes.
When a scene approaches your stated limits, what's your default response?
See progress as it happens
You don't send a link and hope. You track every stage with clarity.
Real-time status
Your dashboard shows every journey's status at a glance: active, completed or expired. Click through for live detail.
Step-by-step progress
The journey tracker visualises exactly where a respondent is: invited, started or finished — with timestamps for every stage.
Polls while active
The tracker automatically refreshes while a journey is open, so you see completions as they happen without reloading.
Authenticated results
Results live inside your authenticated account. Only the journey owner can view or regenerate an analysis.
Five dimensions. Transparent weighting.
Every question is tagged with a category, risk level and weight. We aggregate responses into five readable scores — not a single black-box number.
Built for sensitive conversations
This is intimate data. We treat it that way — by default, not as a setting.
Engineered for accountability
We don't just claim security — we enforce it at every layer of the stack.
Everything under your control
A dashboard and profile system that puts you in charge of your data and your safety.
500+ questions. 23 categories. Constantly refined.
Our library is informed by established consent frameworks, BDSM safety literature and community-vetted compatibility checklists — then tagged by role so Dominants, submissives and switches only see what's relevant. Admins can refine tagging with AI-assisted suggestions to keep the library sharp.